Why I Wrote Date Like a Woman
From my over twenty years of dating experience, discussions with girlfriends (and men), and following social media, I realize that I have always approached dating differently from other women. My upbringing and personal approach to life have provided me with a space of mental freedom that many women who have been indoctrinated in our culture and sexism have never had the opportunity to feel.
I was excited while writing Date Like a Woman. The book flowed. I knew that women were ready for this book and I know that they will love it! I’ve been told that it is filled with humor. At the same time it gives women key strategies to simply enjoy the art of dating. That’s it.
Date Like a Woman is for the 21st century woman who is past ready to sever the cord, yes, quickly, forcefully, and permanently, that has had women dangling perilously on words woven by multiple “dating gurus,” men who instruct women on how to date, and who spew dogma that teaches women to fit a certain sexist “stereotype” in order to be acceptable enough to be “chosen” by the man.
“Men Chase, Women Choose,” is the theme woven throughout this book. It puts an end to guru dogma. Date Like a Woman is for the 21st century woman. It is a millennial teaching tool for the independent woman who has achieved or is achieving financial, social, and mental independence. She simply needs to be given a little nudge in order to be fully in tune with her budding confidence.
Date Like a Woman is her guide.
About the Author
Kai Nicole holds degrees from Harvard University and Howard University School of Law.
She has worked in law, entertainment, technology (Silicon Valley), and has done business development consulting for multiple entrepreneurs.
A native Washingtonian, she has also lived in Boston and Atlanta. Kai is currently residing with her family in the suburbs of San Francisco.