#AskKai: “I was married for almost 20 years.”

#AskKai: “I was married for almost 20 years.”

I was married for almost 20 years. We separated after 16; the divorce is final now. I have been told since I started dating that I make men feel not needed. My ex-husband was in the military so I know how to handle what needs to be done or find someone to do it....
Dear Men, Gold Diggers do NOT want you!

Dear Men, Gold Diggers do NOT want you!

I ran across a post on Facebook the other day where a guy described going to a “meet & greet date” (whatever that is…) where he met a woman who had also brought her friend along. He offered to buy the women drinks but told her friend to...
Certified Wife School??

Certified Wife School??

A couple of years ago on Facebook I noticed one woman, and recently another, claiming that they could teach women to be “wives.” I must confess that it made me curious. (I wasn’t aware that women needed to be taught how to be wives). What I found, to...
Thug vs. Corny?? aka Slim Thug vs. The Wilsons

Thug vs. Corny?? aka Slim Thug vs. The Wilsons

Slim Thug, a rapper who hasn’t been relevant, well ever, recently took it upon himself to criticize Ciara and Russell Wilson’s marriage. Why? Hey, someone put a mic in front of him and this is what he said. “Do a woman who used to talk to Future...
Should Women Serve Men??

Should Women Serve Men??

To be honest, the fact that this question is even a question in this age is beyond absurd to me. However, the question of a “woman’s place” is still very much a topic of debate. Everyday I hear men and women discussing how women should submit, serve,...
Should Men Pay for Women’s Ubers??

Should Men Pay for Women’s Ubers??

Not too long ago I came upon a post where a woman stated that men should pay for her ride to get to the date. The post was particularly interesting to me because she did not own a car but nevertheless saw this as an expectation to dating her. It was also interesting...
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