Is Chivalry Dead? And, Did Women Kill It??

Is Chivalry Dead? And, Did Women Kill It??

Recently, I listened to the Henny and HotWings Podcast, “Chivalry Is Dead and Women are the Reason Why,” where panelists discussed how women are killing chivalry by lowering their dating expectations for men. One example given was not allowing men to pay...
Men, Women Don’t Post Pictures For Your Attention

Men, Women Don’t Post Pictures For Your Attention

That’s right. Women do not post pictures for the attention of men. It is interesting that often when women do post pictures, a significant number of men feel that somehow the women just want their attention. For example, you will see comments like, “She...
Beware of the “Happy Single” Woman!

Beware of the “Happy Single” Woman!

This morning I read Glynnis MacNicol’s July 5, New York Times article, “I’m in My 40s, Child-Free and Happy. Why Won’t Anyone Believe Me?” I easily relate to her article. While I am not child-free, I am in my 40s, and have lived a very happy life...
Why “Dating For Love” Is Wrong

Why “Dating For Love” Is Wrong

Many women and some men often talk about dating for love, or intentional dating. They see no point in dating unless it is for the purpose of a relationship, or love. That’s where many people are making a big mistake. While relationships should be about love,...
#AskKai: “A hopeless romantic losing faith…”

#AskKai: “A hopeless romantic losing faith…”

Hi Kai, I don’t have bad dates as much as no dates! I have had really bad confidence issues in the past but I’m a thousand times better than I was and work has finally calmed down after a crazy few years. I’ve tried online dating and got nowhere, or nowhere good, and...
Women Are Not “Hostile” Or “Angry”

Women Are Not “Hostile” Or “Angry”

One of the complaints that I often hear from men is that women now seem angry or hostile towards them. Many men see feminism and the #MeToo movement as a movement against men. Even in my own experience men often accuse me of being “angry.” It seems to be...
Why Men Don’t Like #PickMe Women

Why Men Don’t Like #PickMe Women

If you are not familiar with the term “pick me” it refers to, “A woman who wants the attention of the opposite sex (or same sex) so badly, she’ll throw her fellow woman under the bus. Internalized misogyny at it’s finest.” –...
Should Engagement Rings Cost Less than $500??

Should Engagement Rings Cost Less than $500??

Ahhh…the engagement ring…an emblem of love. Society loves the symbolic gesture of a man (often on bended knee) presenting a ring and asking his beloved for her hand in marriage. So much effort goes into announcing to the world that these two people are...
Girl…Friends Make the World Great!

Girl…Friends Make the World Great!

I recently watched Jada Pinkett Smith’s Red Table Talk with Gabrielle Union. It reminded me of how much women really need each other and that women need to see each other as allies. I wrote a similar blog a couple of years ago but decided to share this with you...
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