The first time I saw Dave Chappelle…

The first time I saw Dave Chappelle…

The first time I saw Dave Chappelle was in Boston Massachusetts, at Wentworth Institute of Technology, in a gymnasium. It was either 1999 or 2000 I believe, and I was around 23 years old. I went with my boyfriend at the time who was a student at Wentworth. The...
Electronic Courage is Killing Dating!!

Electronic Courage is Killing Dating!!

What is electronic courage you may ask? Well, electronic courage is the confidence people gain when they say things online that they don’t have the guts to say in person. You see this a lot with racist people who say racist things online but won’t say the...
#AskKai: Why would a guy I dated 5 years ago…

#AskKai: Why would a guy I dated 5 years ago…

Kai, Why would a guy I casually dated 5 years ago ask me for details about my sex life with my current boyfriend? Amber Dear Amber, As I say in my book, “The truth is, if a man was ever into you, he will always come back, it can be a week, a month, a year, ten...
The #DLAW Men’s Guide to Sexual Harassment

The #DLAW Men’s Guide to Sexual Harassment

In light of recent events, with increasing numbers of men losing their positions due to sexual misconduct, I have seen a corresponding increase in posts from men seemingly confused as to what actually accounts for sexual harassment. There are multiple posts and...
The 6 Ways Meghan Markle Dated Like A Woman

The 6 Ways Meghan Markle Dated Like A Woman

Not many women can say they are marrying an actual Prince. Meghan Markle can! How did she do it? Let’s look at six ways Meghan Dated Like A Woman before and during her courtship with Prince Harry:   1. She put her needs first when it came to her past...
Ask Kai: Why don’t men call?

Ask Kai: Why don’t men call?

Dear Kai, Why don’t men call? I met a guy at a bar. He asked for my number and then never called or texted me or anything. Why?? A. Dear A., Short answer, he didn’t want to call you. And his decision not to call has absolutely nothing to do with you. When...
Ask Kai: Men don’t like me. I’m ugly.

Ask Kai: Men don’t like me. I’m ugly.

Dear Kai, Men don’t like me. I’m ugly. I’m not skinny. Men never look at me. I wish I had a boyfriend but men only like women who look like Instagram models and I will never look like that. I’m hopeless and undateable. What can I do?...
We Are Giving To @BlackGirlsCode!! #GivingTuesday

We Are Giving To @BlackGirlsCode!! #GivingTuesday

For #GivingTuesday DateLikeAWoman.com is giving 10% of profits for all books purchased to Black Girls Code!! For an entire week starting Thursday, November 23rd until Thursday, November 30th, your purchase will benefit Black Girls Code!! Use code...
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