by Kai Nicole | Sep 5, 2017 | Blog
Hi Kai! As you know having a healthy sex life is important in a relationship. Can you please shed some insight on why so many black women put various restrictions on sex? Smoodie Hi Smoodie! A lot of women put restrictions on sex, not just black women. However,...
by Kai Nicole | Aug 30, 2017 | Blog
As many of you know, I have been a fan of Issa Rae since the The Mis-Adventures of Awkward Black Girl web series. I am also a big fan of her HBO series Insecure. However, last week’s episode had me cringing every moment. It’s because the main character,...
by Kai Nicole | Aug 10, 2017 | Blog
Yesterday, my attention was brought to this story, “A DC Guy Planned Six Dates in a Single Night—and All the Women Found Out“. Before even reading the story I knew there was a dating app involved. If you have read my book, Date Like A Woman, you already...
by Kai Nicole | Aug 9, 2017 | Blog
We have all heard of the “good guy” who is kind, smart, loyal, respectful, and loving. The good guys are not like the players of the world. These guys are the ones that women should look for when they date. They are after all, “good.” In recent...
by Kai Nicole | Jul 3, 2017 | Blog
This article was sent to me this morning: “Men Only Want Sex and Their Freedom.” The author’s basic premise is that women should just give men sex and don’t bother them if you want a successful relationship. The article was written by a woman,...
by Kai Nicole | Jun 28, 2017 | Blog
One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that they never meet any men. I find this complaint baffling because men are literally everywhere. But, after hearing this complaint so much I started to pay a little closer attention to women who say this is a big...
by Kai Nicole | Jun 12, 2017 | Blog
Last Friday, sometime during the playoffs’ final between the Warriors and the Cavaliers, Amber Rose dropped a picture online. I will admit I was so into the game that although I saw some tweets with her name in them I didn’t actually see the picture until...
by Kai Nicole | May 26, 2017 | Blog
Yes, you should date someone you aren’t attracted to. I actually go into this in depth in my book, Date Like A Woman, (purchase it here!). This topic came across my timeline once again and it reminded me that many women think that dating someone whom they are...
by Kai Nicole | May 15, 2017 | Blog
I saw a post on Black Sports Online last week where a woman proclaims that she is “so beautiful she can’t keep a boyfriend and how ugly women have it better.” Of course, as soon as I saw the title I rolled my eyes. In no way do I believe that physical...
by Kai Nicole | May 1, 2017 | Blog
Recently the tweets from the twitter account of Leonard Masilela were posted in a Facebook group I belong to. The series of tweets started with “WOMEN should date with multiple men in the same time period if they wish to settle down, a leading relationship coach...