Good Morning World!!
“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.
Being a Black woman in this country is one of the most complex and challenging experiences. We often find ourselves in the difficult position of celebrating individuals who have contributed to the harm of Black women, whether directly or indirectly. Today is one of those days.
Growing up, I deeply admired the work of Martin Luther King Jr. and others during the Civil Rights Movement. His writings, speeches, and leadership were monumental in shaping the fight for equality. However, as I reached adulthood, I learned about the infidelity in his marriage to Coretta Scott King. This revelation stirred a mix of emotions and inner conflict, as it does for many Black women who wrestle with the legacies of prominent Black men who have had transgressions against women in our community.
As Black women, we are often expected to hold space for Black men, even those who harm us. While Dr. King’s contributions to the movement were undeniably necessary and transformative, it’s important to also acknowledge that he, like so many others, needed to grow in his treatment and respect for Black women. Misogyny and misogynoir are deeply embedded in our culture, often accepted or overlooked, and that must change.
Today, as we honor Dr. King’s legacy and the progress he helped ignite, let’s also take this as an opportunity to reflect on the work that still needs to be done. Accountability and growth are essential for everyone, regardless of their contributions or status. We must hold space for nuance, acknowledging greatness while not excusing harmful behaviors. Black women deserve respect, both in life and in the legacies we uphold. Let’s continue to demand better, for ourselves and for future generations.
Happy Monday!
~ Kai
