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1. Asking for her number on dating apps too early. I see women complain about this all the time. I also see men complain about not being able to get a woman’s number right away. Here’s the problem, men are often dangerous to women so women do not want to give their personal number to a guy until they feel safe. If a woman wants to give you her number, she will. Just relax and enjoy the communication you have access to.
2. Coming on too strong. While some women may like feeling smothered with attention, in general acting like you’re in a relationship with a woman right away is a good way to scare her off. If you try to co-opt her time or just don’t give her a moment to breathe by texting too often, for example, you are probably coming on way too strong. Ease up. Give her time to get to know you.
3. Being overtly sexual WAY TOO SOON. So many men make the mistake of talking about sex too soon. This is an INSTANT turn-off for most women. So is sending unsolicited sexually explicit photos.
4. Not making plans for a date. I know there’s a HUGE debate on what is an acceptable “date” however, if you don’t ask a woman out and PLAN a date, you won’t be going on one. And for the record asking a woman to go to your house on a date in the beginning is unacceptable.
5. Not taking the time to get to know her. Men who only talk about themselves and don’t take the time to get to know their date are probably not going to get a second date. So take a moment and listen and get to know her.
6. Talking negatively about women. It doesn’t matter if you are talking negatively about your ex or feminists. Talking negatively about women while on a date with a woman is a big mistake.
And Ladies, if I have missed any please let me know in the comments or send me a message here!
~ Kai
