by Kai Nicole | Feb 6, 2018 | Blog
Let me start by stating that I have never met Leslie Jones and she has not given me any permission to analyze her dating life. So, I truly hope that if she sees this blog she doesn’t mind me, a complete stranger, talking about something so personal to her. That...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 31, 2018 | Blog
I keep seeing posts about women having a much more successful dating life if they make the first move. I also see lots of men agreeing and telling women that they should “ask men out” first. Let me stop you fellas right there… While making the...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 28, 2018 | Blog
There was a time when men showing up on a first date were expected to bring flowers or candy (or at least that’s how it was portrayed in the movies). Of course, times have changed. There is not so much an emphasis placed anymore on bringing gifts on a first...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 23, 2018 | Blog
Hi Kai, I have dated every type of man possible (thug that’s broke, professional man barely making ends meet, professional athlete taking me anywhere I want to go, middle class BM wining and dining me), but I am not finding someone that is smart, logical, a...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 18, 2018 | Blog
In our 21st century world of…the Internet, social media, smart phones, video chats…we have also created a whole new dating world. Access is greater than ever, yet connections are somehow way off. On top of that we have the question, “to sext or not...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 15, 2018 | Blog
A lot of women are unwilling to travel alone internationally. There are also women unwilling to travel with a man they do not consider as a serious partner or boyfriend. However, international dates are one of the BEST dating experiences that you can have. There is so...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 13, 2018 | Blog
There seems to be a current movement against…”cheap dates”…coming from women. I have noticed a growing discussion of coffee dates as unacceptable and considered to be not “real dates.” In my book I call it, “The ‘$200...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 11, 2018 | Blog
I was in a 5 yrs on and off relationship with my ex that ended in 2016. I tried my best to be a good supportive and loving boyfriend. Making sure that her needs were met. I am frustrated because it is 5 yrs down the drain. I don’t believe that she loved me (at...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 8, 2018 | Blog
Now, before you get too upset, hear me out. No one “needs” anyone in a relationship to survive, except for babies and children who need their parents. So, just like a woman doesn’t “need” a man to survive, so a man doesn’t...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 3, 2018 | Blog
What should I do when I love someone but something doesn’t feel quite right? Help me. I need it very badly. Thank you, Belsom Dear Belsom, That not quite right feeling is your intuition picking up on something that isn’t good for you. Many times we ignore...
