Ask Kai: Why Do Black Women Put Restrictions On Sex?

Ask Kai: Why Do Black Women Put Restrictions On Sex?

Hi Kai! As you know having a healthy sex life is important in a relationship. Can you please shed some insight on why so many black women put various restrictions on sex? Smoodie   Hi Smoodie! A lot of women put restrictions on sex, not just black women. However,...
The 4 Major Dating Mistakes Made By #Issa From #Insecure

The 4 Major Dating Mistakes Made By #Issa From #Insecure

As many of you know, I have been a fan of Issa Rae since the The Mis-Adventures of Awkward Black Girl web series. I am also a big fan of her HBO series Insecure. However, last week’s episode had me cringing every moment. It’s because the main character,...
Online Dating Doesn’t Work For Women

Online Dating Doesn’t Work For Women

Yesterday, my attention was brought to this story, “A DC Guy Planned Six Dates in a Single Night—and All the Women Found Out“. Before even reading the story I knew there was a dating app involved. If you have read my book, Date Like A Woman, you already...
Lawrence and the Mythical “Good Guy”

Lawrence and the Mythical “Good Guy”

We have all heard of the “good guy” who is kind, smart, loyal, respectful, and loving. The good guys are not like the players of the world. These guys are the ones that women should look for when they date. They are after all, “good.” In recent...
Men only want sex and freedom… 

Men only want sex and freedom… 

This article was sent to me this morning: “Men Only Want Sex and Their Freedom.” The author’s basic premise is that women should just give men sex and don’t bother them if you want a successful relationship. The article was written by a woman,...
Ladies, You have to go out to meet men!

Ladies, You have to go out to meet men!

One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that they never meet any men. I find this complaint baffling because men are literally everywhere. But, after hearing this complaint so much I started to pay a little closer attention to women who say this is a big...
Let’s Talk About Amber Rose’s Bush…

Let’s Talk About Amber Rose’s Bush…

Last Friday, sometime during the playoffs’ final between the Warriors and the Cavaliers, Amber Rose dropped a picture online. I will admit I was so into the game that although I saw some tweets with her name in them I didn’t actually see the picture until...
You should date someone you are not attracted to.

You should date someone you are not attracted to.

Yes, you should date someone you aren’t attracted to. I actually go into this in depth in my book, Date Like A Woman, (purchase it here!).  This topic came across my timeline once again and it reminded me that many women think that dating someone whom they are...
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