by Kai Nicole | May 14, 2018 | Blog
Taraji P. Henson announced on Instagram today her engagement to her boyfriend of two years, former football cornerback, Kelvin Hayden. Of course, the big deal is that he is younger by 13 years; he is 34 and she is 47. Here’s the Date Like A Woman take. As a...
by Kai Nicole | May 10, 2018 | Blog
Failed relationships are not a bad thing. Yes, that statement may seem strange, but think about it, failure is often how we learn in other aspects of our lives. Many of us have had a string of bad relationships; it’s more the norm than the exception. Just know...
by Kai Nicole | May 2, 2018 | Blog
A recent Twitter interaction reminded me of how women have been conditioned to be the emotional support for men. This premise is deeply imbedded in our culture. Multiple idioms reinforce this idea, e.g., “Stand by your man,’ ‘A good woman supports...
by Kai Nicole | May 1, 2018 | Blog
The recent tragic van attack in Toronto, Canada brought to my attention an online group called “incel.” If you haven’t heard, “incels” are men who consider themselves “involuntarily celibate.” The incel community is...
by Kai Nicole | Apr 23, 2018 | Blog
The notorious question of “What are we?” often comes up when one person in a dating situation wants to be in a relationship more than the other. Such dating situations operate similar to a relationship, regular contact, sexual intercourse, integration into...
by Kai Nicole | Apr 20, 2018 | Blog
Recently, a woman in Indiana who had stopped replying to texts from a man she went on a date with was sent an invoice from the man asking her to remit payment for the date. She posted the invoice online. It went viral. This is not the first time I have heard of this....
by Kai Nicole | Apr 17, 2018 | Blog
Divorce (or breaking up from a long-term relationship), is one of the most painful experiences one can go through. Some say it feels a lot like someone dying. It is deeply painful. It also requires time to heal from. Parties going through divorce are often not...
by Kai Nicole | Apr 16, 2018 | Blog
One of the most recent celebrity sex scandals involves Cleveland Cavaliers’ player Tristan Thompson and a girlfriend, (whose family shall not be named), who was pregnant with his child. Tristan was seen on video with multiple other women while his girlfriend was...
by Kai Nicole | Apr 9, 2018 | Blog
If you are having a hard time dating make sure you are not making one of these BIG mistakes! 1. You are not ready to date. Sometimes you simply are not ready to date. Maybe you have set some goals for yourself. Maybe you just ended a marriage. Maybe you just...
by Kai Nicole | Apr 5, 2018 | Blog
Kai, Why doesn’t anyone date one person at a time anymore? I don’t want to date more than one man at a time. I just want to date one man. Why is this so hard to find? Please explain. Tina Dear Tina, People still do date one person at a time, when they are...