by Kai Nicole | Jan 23, 2018 | Blog
Hi Kai, I have dated every type of man possible (thug that’s broke, professional man barely making ends meet, professional athlete taking me anywhere I want to go, middle class BM wining and dining me), but I am not finding someone that is smart, logical, a...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 18, 2018 | Blog
In our 21st century world of…the Internet, social media, smart phones, video chats…we have also created a whole new dating world. Access is greater than ever, yet connections are somehow way off. On top of that we have the question, “to sext or not...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 15, 2018 | Blog
A lot of women are unwilling to travel alone internationally. There are also women unwilling to travel with a man they do not consider as a serious partner or boyfriend. However, international dates are one of the BEST dating experiences that you can have. There is so...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 13, 2018 | Blog
There seems to be a current movement against…”cheap dates”…coming from women. I have noticed a growing discussion of coffee dates as unacceptable and considered to be not “real dates.” In my book I call it, “The ‘$200...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 11, 2018 | Blog
I was in a 5 yrs on and off relationship with my ex that ended in 2016. I tried my best to be a good supportive and loving boyfriend. Making sure that her needs were met. I am frustrated because it is 5 yrs down the drain. I don’t believe that she loved me (at...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 8, 2018 | Blog
Now, before you get too upset, hear me out. No one “needs” anyone in a relationship to survive, except for babies and children who need their parents. So, just like a woman doesn’t “need” a man to survive, so a man doesn’t...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 3, 2018 | Blog
What should I do when I love someone but something doesn’t feel quite right? Help me. I need it very badly. Thank you, Belsom Dear Belsom, That not quite right feeling is your intuition picking up on something that isn’t good for you. Many times we ignore...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 2, 2018 | Blog
Now that we are in a new year it’s time to talk about your social media. As I state in my book, “many times women make the mistake of using social media to show what they are doing every minute of everyday, or even using social media as a therapy session...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 1, 2018 | Blog
The first time I saw Dave Chappelle was in Boston Massachusetts, at Wentworth Institute of Technology, in a gymnasium. It was either 1999 or 2000 I believe, and I was around 23 years old. I went with my boyfriend at the time who was a student at Wentworth. The...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 27, 2017 | Blog
What is electronic courage you may ask? Well, electronic courage is the confidence people gain when they say things online that they don’t have the guts to say in person. You see this a lot with racist people who say racist things online but won’t say the...
