Black Women and BDSM: An Interview

Black Women and BDSM: An Interview

Most who have followed Jill Scott over the years know that her song lyrics are often sexually explicit. Nevertheless, many were still shocked by a recent “performance” that went viral on Twitter. Based on many of the reactions, sex is still very much a...
My Cousin Toy Passed Last Night

My Cousin Toy Passed Last Night

My cousin Toy died from cancer last night.  Her death causes me to reflect upon how precious life is. We are often so focused on our own lives and struggles that we rarely think about what someone else is going through. I don’t ever remember a time that we...
5 Tips on How to Date a Feminist!

5 Tips on How to Date a Feminist!

I was just asked by a friend to provide 5 tips on how a man can date a feminist/nontraditional woman. My initial reaction was, “Are we that intimidating?” I am actually amused that there are men who are against dating a woman who wants “gender...
Relearning Relationships

Relearning Relationships

In my book, Date Like A Woman, I focused on dating because I wanted to make it clear that dating is not the same thing as a relationship although dating is a first step to getting into a relationship. I also wanted to emphasize that by dating in a way that enriches...
“What is a Date???”

“What is a Date???”

I am not sure why people make “dating” so complicated, but again I am seeing debates discussing the topic, “What is a date?” Listening to people talk about what they expected on a date and how very often they were disappointed because they...
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