by Kai Nicole | Dec 19, 2017 | Blog
Kai, Why would a guy I casually dated 5 years ago ask me for details about my sex life with my current boyfriend? Amber Dear Amber, As I say in my book, “The truth is, if a man was ever into you, he will always come back, it can be a week, a month, a year, ten...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 14, 2017 | Blog
In light of recent events, with increasing numbers of men losing their positions due to sexual misconduct, I have seen a corresponding increase in posts from men seemingly confused as to what actually accounts for sexual harassment. There are multiple posts and...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 7, 2017 | Blog
I came across a tweet this morning by Essence with this title, “Top 7 Reasons Why Single Black Men Don’t Approach Black Women.” My immediate reaction was to groan. As a Black woman (and Essence subscriber) I get tired of seeing articles attacking Black...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 4, 2017 | Blog
Not many women can say they are marrying an actual Prince. Meghan Markle can! How did she do it? Let’s look at six ways Meghan Dated Like A Woman before and during her courtship with Prince Harry: 1. She put her needs first when it came to her past...
by Kai Nicole | Nov 29, 2017 | Blog
Dear Kai, Why don’t men call? I met a guy at a bar. He asked for my number and then never called or texted me or anything. Why?? A. Dear A., Short answer, he didn’t want to call you. And his decision not to call has absolutely nothing to do with you. When...
by Kai Nicole | Nov 27, 2017 | Blog
Dear Kai, Men don’t like me. I’m ugly. I’m not skinny. Men never look at me. I wish I had a boyfriend but men only like women who look like Instagram models and I will never look like that. I’m hopeless and undateable. What can I do?...
by Kai Nicole | Nov 22, 2017 | Blog
For #GivingTuesday DateLikeAWoman.com is giving 10% of profits for all books purchased to Black Girls Code!! For an entire week starting Thursday, November 23rd until Thursday, November 30th, your purchase will benefit Black Girls Code!! Use code...
by Kai Nicole | Nov 15, 2017 | Blog
News of powerful men in Hollywood losing their careers because of sexual assault, Senator Roy Moore of Alabama being accused of sexual assault and rape, and even the hashtag #WeKnowWhatYouDid have all become hot topics of discussion at Atlanta University Center in...
by Kai Nicole | Nov 10, 2017 | Blog
The last couple of weeks I have been trying to deal with my feelings around the sexual abuse allegations against many of Hollywood’s famous men. I know that being sexually harassed and/or assaulted as a woman is a commonplace and daily occurrence. Women all over...
by Kai Nicole | Oct 28, 2017 | Blog
I like Cardi B. I had no idea who she was because I don’t watch very much TV and have never seen one episode of Love and Hip Hop. But, one day sometime ago she came across my Explore Feed on Instagram. She made me laugh. I cannot even remember the very first...