by Kai Nicole | Jun 20, 2018 | Blog
One of the complaints that I often hear from men is that women now seem angry or hostile towards them. Many men see feminism and the #MeToo movement as a movement against men. Even in my own experience men often accuse me of being “angry.” It seems to be...
by Kai Nicole | Jun 15, 2018 | Blog
If you are not familiar with the term “pick me” it refers to, “A woman who wants the attention of the opposite sex (or same sex) so badly, she’ll throw her fellow woman under the bus. Internalized misogyny at it’s finest.” –...
by Kai Nicole | Jun 5, 2018 | Blog
Ahhh…the engagement ring…an emblem of love. Society loves the symbolic gesture of a man (often on bended knee) presenting a ring and asking his beloved for her hand in marriage. So much effort goes into announcing to the world that these two people are...
by Kai Nicole | Jun 1, 2018 | Blog
I recently watched Jada Pinkett Smith’s Red Table Talk with Gabrielle Union. It reminded me of how much women really need each other and that women need to see each other as allies. I wrote a similar blog a couple of years ago but decided to share this with you...
by Kai Nicole | May 26, 2018 | Blog
Summer is upon us and I’ll bet you are wondering how to make the best of your summertime dating. Well ladies, pull out those cute sun dresses and listen up! 1. Be Happy! “If you are unhappy because you are single, you are going to stay single...
by Kai Nicole | May 20, 2018 | Blog
Yesterday, the world was abuzz about the Royal Wedding of Prince Harry to Meghan Markle. They are now the Duke and Duchess of Sussex. Women everywhere are still swooning about this fairytale wedding, a woman finding her prince, reinforcing their belief that their own...
by Kai Nicole | May 14, 2018 | Blog
Taraji P. Henson announced on Instagram today her engagement to her boyfriend of two years, former football cornerback, Kelvin Hayden. Of course, the big deal is that he is younger by 13 years; he is 34 and she is 47. Here’s the Date Like A Woman take. As a...
by Kai Nicole | May 10, 2018 | Blog
Failed relationships are not a bad thing. Yes, that statement may seem strange, but think about it, failure is often how we learn in other aspects of our lives. Many of us have had a string of bad relationships; it’s more the norm than the exception. Just know...
by Kai Nicole | May 2, 2018 | Blog
A recent Twitter interaction reminded me of how women have been conditioned to be the emotional support for men. This premise is deeply imbedded in our culture. Multiple idioms reinforce this idea, e.g., “Stand by your man,’ ‘A good woman supports...
by Kai Nicole | May 1, 2018 | Blog
The recent tragic van attack in Toronto, Canada brought to my attention an online group called “incel.” If you haven’t heard, “incels” are men who consider themselves “involuntarily celibate.” The incel community is...