I saw this post by Six Brown Chicks‘ twitter yesterday and I had to wonder why these women were so angry about single women when they seem to believe that their marriages made them better?
Whoever posted this picture made it known that they were “Team MARRIED” and that they also thought single women were “hoes,” “not Mrs.” and “street women.” I honestly don’t get where this anger comes from.
It’s not the first time I have come across married women who seem more interested in telling everyone they are married than interacting with their husbands. I often wonder if these women are so happily married, where do they find the time to be bitter to single women?
These women seem to believe that marriage is a goal. And usually when you accomplish a goal you are happy. But in this situation all that seems to come across is bitterness. Personally I have never seen marriage as a goal. Mostly because I think getting married isn’t difficult. Don’t get me wrong, I think marriage is perfectly fine. In fact there are some married couples who have relationships to be admired. I just don’t see it as a goal. It’s more like something you choose to do if you want to. But it’s not something that makes me feel accomplished.
Yet here we are again seeing married women spreading vitriol to single women. Why? What purpose does it serve to put single women down?
Truth is, if these women were as happy with their marriages as they claim they wouldn’t even think to say such negative things about single women. They would just be “happliy married.”
~Kai
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