“Women Lie About Rape!!”

“Women Lie About Rape!!”

News of powerful men in Hollywood losing their careers because of sexual assault, Senator Roy Moore of Alabama being accused of sexual assault and rape, and even the hashtag #WeKnowWhatYouDid have all become hot topics of discussion at Atlanta University Center in...
Is Your Date A Normal Guy Or A Sexual Predator???

Is Your Date A Normal Guy Or A Sexual Predator???

The last couple of weeks I have been trying to deal with my feelings around the sexual abuse allegations against many of Hollywood’s famous men. I know that being sexually harassed and/or assaulted as a woman is a commonplace and daily occurrence. Women all over...
Why Cardi B. Is Winning and You Aren’t…

Why Cardi B. Is Winning and You Aren’t…

I like Cardi B. I had no idea who she was because I don’t watch very much TV and have never seen one episode of Love and Hip Hop. But, one day sometime ago she came across my Explore Feed on Instagram. She made me laugh. I cannot even remember the very first...
#AskKai – “I met a guy online…”

#AskKai – “I met a guy online…”

I met a guy online that lives in NC (I live in AZ) we talked on the phone for four months, he came to AZ to see me, we had a nice time (I did not sleep with him) and he said he was thinking of moving to AZ. He was here a week and called me the day he left and I have...
Ask Kai: How do you stop a man from cheating?

Ask Kai: How do you stop a man from cheating?

After reading your blog about Kevin Hart I want to know how do you stop a man from cheating? (Anonymous) Dear Anonymous, The short answer is, you can’t. As I say in my book, “Men go willingly to where they want to be.” That’s right, men go to...
#FortheDChallenge

#FortheDChallenge

The article “A Raunchy Rap Challenge Is Making Some Question The Morals of These Celebrities” popped across my social media feed this morning. If you do not know what the #FortheDChallenge is, it a rap challenge to see who can come up with the most clever...
The Dating Chronicles Episode 2: The Wedding Date

The Dating Chronicles Episode 2: The Wedding Date

“The Wedding Date” This past weekend a man that I have been seeing asked me to be his date to his brother’s wedding. Yes, wedding dates are a real thing. We have not been dating very long so to be asked to a family wedding is kind of a BIG deal, and...
Ask Kai: Uber on the First Date?

Ask Kai: Uber on the First Date?

To keep it fully transparent, if I’m on a first date and I pick her up in an Uber, is that a bad first impression? I don’t have a car, but I don’t want to miss out on getting to know a great person. (Anonymous) Hi Anonymous, Let me be honest, I would...
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