by Kai Nicole | Jan 11, 2018 | Blog
I was in a 5 yrs on and off relationship with my ex that ended in 2016. I tried my best to be a good supportive and loving boyfriend. Making sure that her needs were met. I am frustrated because it is 5 yrs down the drain. I don’t believe that she loved me (at...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 8, 2018 | Blog
Now, before you get too upset, hear me out. No one “needs” anyone in a relationship to survive, except for babies and children who need their parents. So, just like a woman doesn’t “need” a man to survive, so a man doesn’t...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 3, 2018 | Blog
What should I do when I love someone but something doesn’t feel quite right? Help me. I need it very badly. Thank you, Belsom Dear Belsom, That not quite right feeling is your intuition picking up on something that isn’t good for you. Many times we ignore...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 2, 2018 | Blog
Now that we are in a new year it’s time to talk about your social media. As I state in my book, “many times women make the mistake of using social media to show what they are doing every minute of everyday, or even using social media as a therapy session...
by Kai Nicole | Jan 1, 2018 | Blog
The first time I saw Dave Chappelle was in Boston Massachusetts, at Wentworth Institute of Technology, in a gymnasium. It was either 1999 or 2000 I believe, and I was around 23 years old. I went with my boyfriend at the time who was a student at Wentworth. The...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 27, 2017 | Blog
What is electronic courage you may ask? Well, electronic courage is the confidence people gain when they say things online that they don’t have the guts to say in person. You see this a lot with racist people who say racist things online but won’t say the...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 19, 2017 | Blog
Kai, Why would a guy I casually dated 5 years ago ask me for details about my sex life with my current boyfriend? Amber Dear Amber, As I say in my book, “The truth is, if a man was ever into you, he will always come back, it can be a week, a month, a year, ten...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 14, 2017 | Blog
In light of recent events, with increasing numbers of men losing their positions due to sexual misconduct, I have seen a corresponding increase in posts from men seemingly confused as to what actually accounts for sexual harassment. There are multiple posts and...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 7, 2017 | Blog
I came across a tweet this morning by Essence with this title, “Top 7 Reasons Why Single Black Men Don’t Approach Black Women.” My immediate reaction was to groan. As a Black woman (and Essence subscriber) I get tired of seeing articles attacking Black...
by Kai Nicole | Dec 4, 2017 | Blog
Not many women can say they are marrying an actual Prince. Meghan Markle can! How did she do it? Let’s look at six ways Meghan Dated Like A Woman before and during her courtship with Prince Harry: 1. She put her needs first when it came to her past...
