by Kai Nicole | Sep 27, 2017 | Blog
“The Wedding Date” This past weekend a man that I have been seeing asked me to be his date to his brother’s wedding. Yes, wedding dates are a real thing. We have not been dating very long so to be asked to a family wedding is kind of a BIG deal, and...
by Kai Nicole | Sep 25, 2017 | Blog
To keep it fully transparent, if I’m on a first date and I pick her up in an Uber, is that a bad first impression? I don’t have a car, but I don’t want to miss out on getting to know a great person. (Anonymous) Hi Anonymous, Let me be honest, I would...
by Kai Nicole | Sep 19, 2017 | Blog
“Why is it so hard to escape what you despise the most in relationships? Have you ever noticed this?” (Anonymous) Dear Anonymous, Without knowing exactly what you mean by “despise the most in relationships” I’m going to take a guess and...
by Kai Nicole | Sep 18, 2017 | Blog
Kevin Hart made an apology on his Instagram last night for cheating on his wife. Since then I have seen many comments from men saying how it’s harder for men not to cheat, especially when they are famous. Let me stop y’all right there. People, that’s...
by Kai Nicole | Sep 13, 2017 | Blog
Now that I have your attention, let’s talk. Why is having a list problematic to a happy dating life? In my book I urge women to get rid of their lists. However, after several exchanges on Twitter starting this morning and continuing throughout the day from many...
by Kai Nicole | Sep 11, 2017 | Blog
I read your book and I didn’t like it. I feel like you’re telling women to settle. I personally don’t like short guys or men who don’t have their lives together. I don’t feel like I should have to date men who are broke. I believe I...
by Kai Nicole | Sep 5, 2017 | Blog
Hi Kai! As you know having a healthy sex life is important in a relationship. Can you please shed some insight on why so many black women put various restrictions on sex? Smoodie Hi Smoodie! A lot of women put restrictions on sex, not just black women. However,...
by Kai Nicole | Aug 30, 2017 | Blog
As many of you know, I have been a fan of Issa Rae since the The Mis-Adventures of Awkward Black Girl web series. I am also a big fan of her HBO series Insecure. However, last week’s episode had me cringing every moment. It’s because the main character,...
by Kai Nicole | Aug 10, 2017 | Blog
Yesterday, my attention was brought to this story, “A DC Guy Planned Six Dates in a Single Night—and All the Women Found Out“. Before even reading the story I knew there was a dating app involved. If you have read my book, Date Like A Woman, you already...
by Kai Nicole | Aug 9, 2017 | Blog
We have all heard of the “good guy” who is kind, smart, loyal, respectful, and loving. The good guys are not like the players of the world. These guys are the ones that women should look for when they date. They are after all, “good.” In recent...
